Many Christian women are not opposed to following Jesus. They are simply exhausted by the pressure they place on themselves while doing so. They believe faithfulness requires intensity, urgency, and constant spiritual productivity.
When progress feels slow, discouragement sets in. When mistakes happen, shame follows. Over time, the walk with Christ becomes heavyânot because Jesus made it so, but because women attempt to carry what He never asked them to bear.
Jesus does not call His followers to perfection. He calls them to followâone step at a time.
In Christian life coaching, we often discover that the heaviest burden women carry is not Godâs expectationâit is their own. Coaching helps separate conviction from self-imposed pressure so the walk becomes sustainable rather than exhausting.
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The Lie: If I am truly following Jesus, I should be further along by now.
This lie quietly fuels comp...
Many faithful Christian women know the quiet stretch of waiting.
Waiting for clarity.
Waiting for breakthrough.
Waiting for doors to open.
Waiting for prayers to be answered.
Outwardly, life may look steady. But inwardly, the heart sometimes whispers:
Lord⌠how long?
If you have ever stood in that sacred tension between promise and fulfillment, you are walking a path well known in Scripture.
Long before modern women wrestled with delayed answers, Sarah faced the same stretching of faith.
And her story still speaks with gentle wisdom today.
âIs any thing too hard for the Lord? At the time appointed I will return unto thee, according to the time of life, and Sarah shall have a son.â
â Genesis 18:14 (KJV)
This question still echoes across generations:
Is any thing too hard for the Lord?
Sarahâs journey was not brief.
Years passed.
Seasons turned.
Ho...
When Stillness Is Not Faith
There are seasons when God calls His people to waitâand seasons when waiting becomes disobedience disguised as wisdom. Many Christian women know the difference instinctively, yet struggle to respond when Godâs instruction feels uncomfortable.
Standing still can feel holy. It can sound humble. It can even look responsible. But when God has clearly spoken, remaining where you are is no longer neutral.
There comes a moment in every faith journey when God gentlyâbut firmlyâsays, It is time to move.
In Christian life coaching, these moments are rarely dramatic. They surface as repeated nudges, quiet convictions, or patterns that refuse to resolve. Coaching helps women discern whether their waiting is Spirit-ledâor fear-protected.
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The Lie We Often Walk With (Lie-Locked Living)
The Lie: If I stay where I am, I am being faithful.
This lie often forms after disappointment, loss, or fear. Women who have been hurt learn to equate movement with risk and stilln...
Many faithful Christian women quietly carry a tender ache.
They serve.
They show up.
They remain faithful in responsibilities that few people fully notice.
Yet deep within, a question sometimes rises:
Does anyone truly see what I am carrying?
Does my situation matter to God?
Am I walking this road alone?
Long before modern women wrestled with these thoughts, a woman in the wilderness faced the same emotional landscape. Her name was Hagar.
And her story still speaks with gentle power today.
âAnd she called the name of the Lord that spake unto her, Thou God seest me: for she said, Have I also here looked after him that seeth me?â
â Genesis 16:13 (KJV)
In one of the most personal moments in all of Scripture, a hurting woman gave God a name that continues to comfort believers across generations.
Thou God seest me.
Hagarâs situation was complicated and pai...
Faith That Moves
Many Christian women have been taughtâoften unintentionallyâthat faith looks like waiting quietly and hoping circumstances change. They pray, believe, and trust, yet remain still, assuming movement would be presumptuous or self-driven.
But Scripture tells a different story.
Walking with Jesus has never been passive. From Genesis to Revelation, faith is consistently described as movementâsometimes trembling, sometimes uncertain, but always responsive.
Jesus did not say, âStand and believe.â He said, âFollow me.â
âAnd he saith unto them, Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.â â Matthew 4:19 (KJV)
Following requires feet, not just feelings.
Walking implies direction, decision, and discipline. Christian life coaching exists to help women move from inspired belief to intentional obedience. Faith grows strongest when it is practiced with clarity and accountability.
Christian women know Scripture well. Yet knowledge alone does not dismantle deeply rooted lies...
Many faithful Christian women do not wake up intending to drift from truth.
They love the Lord.
They read His Word.
They desire to walk uprightly.
And yet, if we are honest, there are moments when a subtle question slips quietly into the mind:
Did God really say�
Am I really enough?
Can I really trust His timing?
These moments are not new to our generation. They reach all the way back to the garden, where the first woman encountered the first recorded lie.
To follow the footsteps of faithful women today, we must begin where the battle first appeared.
âNow the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?â
â Genesis 3:1 (KJV)
The enemy did not begin with force.
He began with a question.
And the question was aimed directly at the W...
A New Year, A New Walk
A new year has a way of stirring both hope and hesitation in the same breath. January arrives with clean calendars and quiet questions. Many Christian women step into a new year faithful, committed, and prayerfulâyet privately unsure whether anything will truly change.
Some do not lack discipline. Others do not lack faith. Many have prayed, served, and persevered for years. Yet beneath the surface, there is often a subtle resignation: This is just how life is.
God does not call His daughters to sprint into January with pressure and promises they cannot keep. He calls them to walkâsteadily, intentionally, and truthfullyâwith Him.
âAnd Enoch walked with GodâŚâ â Genesis 5:24 (KJV)
Walking implies movement, but it also implies relationship. It is not frantic. It is faithful. And it always begins with a step.
Many women begin the year with resolutions. Few begin with reflection. Fewer still begin with intentional alignment. Biblical teaching reveals truth. Chris...
New Yearâs Eve is more than the turning of a calendar page. It is a holy threshold. A quiet hinge between what has been and what may yet be. For the Christian woman in business, this night invites more than resolutions. It calls for reflection, surrender, and consecration.
Before new strategies are written, before goals are declared, wisdom asks us to pause. Scripture reminds us, âTo every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heavenâ (Ecclesiastes 3:1, KJV). Tonight is a time to look back with gratitude and forward with faith.
The past year likely held both fruit and frustration. Wins that surprised you. Delays that humbled you. Efforts that bore visible results, and others known only to God. In business, it is easy to measure success by numbers alone. Heaven measures differently.
New Yearâs Eve is not the night for harsh self-judgment. It is the night for holy accounting.
Ask gently:
Where di
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There is something sacred about the final days of December. The year stands behind you like a tapestry of lessons, blessings, and battles⌠and the year ahead whispers softly, inviting you to step into its untraveled paths with fresh courage. The hush between years is a holy pauseâa moment suspended outside of hurry, where heaven leans close and the heart listens more deeply.
In this tender space, the Lord speaks a promise that cuts through fear, uncertainty, and hesitation:
âBehold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it?â
â Isaiah 43:19 (KJV)
A new thing.
A fresh beginning.
A holy renewal.
Not because the calendar changes,
but because God is always at work,
shaping, refining, restoring, and preparing you
for what comes next.
This final Personal Development blog of the year is your gentle invitation to reflect with truth, release with peace, and rise with courage into a new God-given season.
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âWine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.â â Proverbs 20:1, KJV
December is National Impaired Driving Prevention Month, a moment to protect what matters mostâlives made in the image of God. According to NHTSA, alcohol-impaired driving still accounts for about 30% of all traffic deaths in the United States; 12,429 people were killed in alcohol-impaired crashes in 2023âa tragedy averaging one death every 42 minutes.Â
Holiday gatherings bring joy, but also risk. From 2018â2022, more than 4,750 people died in drunk-driving crashes in December alone, and 1,062 died in December 2022, the highest since 2007. The charge is simple: plan ahead, drive only when sober, and help loved ones do the same.
âLet us walk honestly, as in the day⌠not in rioting and drunkenness⌠But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ.â â Romans 13:13â14, KJV
Federal health and safety agencies continue to warn that impaired drivingâwhether ...